FORGIVENESS

To forgive
Is not to forget.

To forgive
Is really to remember

That nobody is perfect

That each of us stumbles
When we want so much to stay upright

That each of us says things
We wish we had never said

That we can all forget that love
Is more important than being right.

To forgive
Is really to remember

That we are so much more
Than our mistakes

That we are often more kind and caring
That accepting another's flaws
Can help us accept our own.

To forgive
Is to remember

That the odds are pretty good that
We might soon need to be forgiven ourselves.

That life sometimes gives us more
Than we can handle gracefully.

To forgive
Is to remember

That we have room in our hearts to
Begin again

And again,

And again.

~~ Author Unknown ~~

from Nirmala Devi's Daily Inspirations

most of the time I have to forgive myself for loving people no matter how "unforgivable" so many of their actions are.  "all God's children" - as Tim Adams likes to say.  All God's children...we are all God's very small, needy children. 
oceans of love,
Sumukhi Yogafly